I'im sick of hiding under the blankets after sex!

by heather
(portland, oregon)

I'm sick of hiding under the blankets after sex!

I have a wonderful boyfriend whom I have been with for years, but since ever we started having sex I always make sure to hurry and cover myself up with something before he can see why I am so grossed out by myself. I want to have sex with the lights on! That's why I need to lose weight.

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I'im sick of hiding under the blankets after sex!

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May 22, 2010
 I was ashamed at first too
by: Anonymous

I was ashamed of my body at first too. My size and obesity is one of the reasons why I waited so long to lose my virginity. I was well past 18 years of age when I first did it. The lights were off and I didn't even take all of my clothes off.

I find that I only have relationships with men who are overweight too now. I just feel more comfortable, and they are used to seeing fat rolls, stretch marks, and cellulite. This does not help me drop the pounds though. But at least I can actually wear plus size lingerie with the lights on sometimes.

It's great that your boyfriend is okay with your body. You should build on that and try to draw some confidence from it. He obviously is a happy camper. :-)

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